ABC's of Me!

Appalachian State University… the school I worked hard to get into and did.
Blessed: What I’m feeling right now because I have the best family and the most amazing friends a person could ask for!
Creative: What I like to think of myself as. :-)
Desk: What I’m sitting at, at work. Filling this out.
Eustacian Tube Dysfunction…. I’ve got it… in my right ear. Can’t hear a thing except for a buzzing sound.
Friends: lots of them, and love each of them!
Giardia: What my sweet pup Bella almost died from two days after I adopted her.
Happy Girl… My favorite song by Martina McBride. I feel it fits me to a “T”.
Inches: What I’m hoping I’ll lose over the next year or two. :-) YAY!
Jobless: What I found out I’ll be last Friday. May 15th will be my last day at my job. I’ve been here for 5 years almost to the day.
Konrad: The sweetest little boy (My best friend Chris’ son) who gave me the name “Auntie”. I treasure it and every time he and his little sister say it.
Laughing: One of the many memories I have of the dorm is when Sarah and I (Sarah was the RA) used to laugh so hard and so loud at NOTHING, but the people on either side of us actually had to come tell us to settle down.
Macon: Georgia that is… Where my extended family lives/was from. My Meema still lives there. It’s a beautiful town, with not a whole lot to do. Except Susan and I always go to Kmart, like it is some big deal. (we have one in Charlotte.. but for some reason, only go when we are in Macon)
Niece: I am an aunt to the sweetest, happiest, most beautiful baby girl named Ainsley. She is an angel that gives a new meaning to the word life. :-)
Old: What I’ll be in September when I turn the big 3-0!
Photography- CKJCreations.. My photography business. I can’t wait to explore this talent even more.
Quiet: What I love after a crazy day, but what I hate when it’s an empty quiet.
Realistic Optimist: This is how I describe myself. I realistically expect that things will turn out good. :-)
Severance: The type of package that was given to me yesterday that I haven’t signed because I have to review it with my father.. aka.. my financial advisor.
Taxes: I owed a whopping $3 to the state of North Carolina this year. Last year I actually had to write a check for the huge amount of $1. I hope that it goes to some wonderful politician meal!!
Unique: I happen think of myself as a pretty unique individual.
Valle Crucis: One of the most beautiful towns in the North Carolina Mountains. A MUST visit for people seeking beauty in it’s natural state.
Windows: What I wish I had more of. I love bright sunshine coming in a window. It also offers great natural lighting for photography.
X-ray- I had a few.. but the worst one was when I broke my foot. Every time I went in, they had to get a shot from a certain angle that made me have to lay my foot on the broken side. That felt like torture!
Yes! It’s ALL GOOD!!! :-)
Zenith: The first television that we had as an extra that I remember us having growing up. It was the one that we had to turn the dial on it and adjust the rabbit ears.

Please Pray for Stellan!!

YOOOHOOOO.... I'm baaaccckkk from the hiatus of life!!

I realize I have not blogged in a LOOOOOONNNNNNNGGGGGGGG, but things have been QUITE crazy around these parts. Life has a way of taking detours every now and then, and some things just don’t seem as important as they used to. At least, to me that is. So I’ll give you the highlights in random order.

1. Mom completed her Chemo treatments and got a clean bill of Health back in September. She is finally doing very well, and we are all impressed with her recovery. She still has some neuropathy issues, but every now and then she gets “short circuits” and it’s as if the nerves in her hands and feet are making connections, it’s just taking a while. She is thriving though, and we are all glad to have her “back”. Chemo is tough!!!

2. Mom and Dad completed a renovation to the den. They bumped the den out about 12 feet and it added some much needed extra space. It brightened everything up, and allows everyone to sit in there comfortably, without anyone sitting on the floor.

3. On October 5, 2008 the most BEAUTIFUL baby GIRL was born into this world. My Niece!!!! I can’t tell you the elation I had in me the minute I got the “IT’S A GIRL!!!” news. As some of you know, Brian and Lauren did not want to find out the sex of the baby. So they held out and sure enough Ainsley Grace made her way into this world at a whopping 6 lbs 1 oz. She is so beautiful and she is definitely from our family! She’s got the cheeks!!! :-) Brian and Lauren have adjusted to parenthood quite nicely. It is amazing to see them blossom into such amazing parents!!! Here is a picture of the cutest baby EVER to be on this planet!!!!!!!!!!

4. I’ve gotten more involved in photography, with the new addition of my very first digital SLR. It’s a Nikon D60! I’m in heaven!!! I love this camera, and CKJCreations is off and running… well.. sort of. But I’ve got a mentor now that is showing me the ropes of photography and is helping me out big time with my questions!

#5 is the most life altering change in my life……
5. I made the decision in October of 2008 to go through with Gastric Bypass Surgery. I went to the doctor the week after Ainsley was born, for an infected cyst, and my weight had sky rocketed to the highest it’s ever been. I think the stress of the past year played a huge role in it. So I started the journey by attending a seminar on November 4, 2008 and that started the ball rolling. I chose an amazing surgeon by the name of Dr. Voellinger with Southeast Bariatrics. The program is extremely comprehensive, and is definitely not a split second decision. My PCP and I had been discussing options for weight loss for the past 4 years. I attempted the Mediterranean diet, weight watchers, doing a diet on my own, and then there was Nutri System (which worked, but my body became used to the foods, and then the craziness of 2008 really took a toll on me). I have been large all of my life, and the birth of Ainsley Grace made me want to be healthier… For her, for me, for my future, for her future… I want to go into my 30s and be healthy!!! I do not have outrageous expectations to be a stick thin person. I just want to be healthy! I want to see this little girl grow up and I want to be able to take her places and do things that a heavier person may not be able to do.
I am now working out at the YMCA on Tuesdays and Thursdays, and I am following a high protein, low calorie diet. I started my 6 month physician supervised diet back in February, and so far I’ve lost 5 lbs. (according to the digital scale at the doctors office) but on the home scale it is more around the area of 7-8 lbs. I’m not complaining!! :-) I’m getting healthy!!!
So I will keep you all updated on the progress, and once I get the date of my Surgery, I will post it on here. I will also be sending an email out to everyone who is interested.


So that’s been the last 8 months in a nutshell! :-)

Hopefully I’ll be back in the blogging game!!! :-)

One Fine Day......

One year ago today, the world lost one of the most beautiful people to ever walk this earth and I lost a beautiful friend Tina. I can’t believe it’s been one full year already. Her children are 1 year older, her gravesite, one year older. The anger towards the person that inflicted her death, has not gone away. He took a mother from her two beautiful children, and a daughter away from her parents, a sister from her brothers, and a friend from her friends. Jail almost doesn’t feel adequate. My views of the adequacy of the punishment are far worse than what Tina would have wanted. She was the gentlest person, the kindest person, and most importantly, the most forgiving of persons. I know she would want us to forgive him for doing this to her. Why is it so hard to forgive him? I’m guessing because in a lifetime, one year isn’t such a long time. Time heals, right? I’m having a tough time forgiving, because he took such a wonderful mother and such an amazing friend.

The one year anniversary of Tina’s death is also a day for celebration. My mother finished her last round of Chemo today. They gave her a “graduation” certificate, balloons, and flowers etc. The past 8 months have been nothing but a spiral of frustrations, heartaches, emotions, challenges, and younameits. We’re all ready to have this chemo over and done with! It’s so hard to watch your mother go through chemo that drains the energy from the one person who you always thought was invincible. “Mom’s don’t get sick!” Well, reality is… they do… They just try to hide it, but sometimes their bodies have other ideas. I’m so thankful that my Mother’s cancer was caught so early. I’m so fortunate that she has had the BEST care from doctors and nurses, not to mention my father. I can only hope to one day find and marry a man as magnificent as he is.


So, Today is a bittersweet day.

My Dog is SOOOO Smart!!

Last night was our first night of Agility Classes. Bella LOVED it!! I am so excited about the future in agility with her. She definitely needs the training, but I think this just may be her thing! Our thing! Something she and I can do together to build up our confidence! Towards the end of the class, Bella was starting to trust me more and more with leading her through the first few structures on the course. She’s always trusted me, but she likes to do her own thing when she’s on leash. But last night, she started to “get it”. She started the night out with her tail between her legs, and stood right next to me, almost as if she were afraid to move. She was so nervous that she wouldn’t even take a treat from me. Over the course of the hour though, she slowly but surely let go of some of that nervous energy, and was actually going up to people and wanting to be petted by them. The instructor does not want us to let our dogs socialize with one another so that the focus on the time with the dog and the owner and allowing that time to be focused fun with the two of us. The dogs will lose focus if they are too interested in the other dogs around them. Bella did not bark, cry, whimper, snarl, hide, or any of her other notorious reactions. She was so well behaved, and I was so proud of her! I think she knew how proud I was of her. Towards the end of the class, she was becoming more confident and as we crossed over the tall ramp structure, the downward side of it, Bella’s tail went from still tucked, to up and wagging.
I’m so excited to work with her on all of this!!! Maybe one of these days she’ll win a ribbon or compete in agility trials or something! :-) I’m not going to get my hopes up, but I cannot wait to see what the future holds with agility!
I love my dog!!!

And so I thank the Lord....

......for giving me, the things I need, the sun and the rain and the apple seed, the Lord's been good to me...



I just realized that I have not posted any Hawaii pictures. Gosh, I feel like that was so long ago. Almost as if it were a dream, and sort of like it didn’t happen. I’m glad that I took pictures, or else I wouldn’t have believed I was there at all. So much has been going on that I haven’t focused on vacation. I’m so glad we went, because no one knows what the future holds. The doctor actually told us he wanted us to go ahead and go. I think we’ll just go ahead and chalk 2008 as the year of crappy circumstances. With the only bright moment being that “BeeBug” will be joining us this year. :-)


So instead of talking about Mom’s cancer, and all of the depressing things that go along with that, I’m going to do a little list of things I’m thankful for….

1. My Family first and foremost. My parents continue to amaze me every day, and I hope one day to have a love like theirs. I should only be so lucky!!

2. My dog. No matter how darn crazy she may seem sometimes, and how annoying she is to others in the neighborhood, she is honestly the light of my life. Sounds crazy to call a dog your light of your life, but it’s true. She barks relentlessly at random things, and gets spooked very easily by quick moving objects and barks at those too. Sometimes I wish I could just make her stop, but it teaches me patience. Although I’m not sure it’s teaching the neighbors that. :-)

3. My friendships. I value my friendships even more now than I ever have. Life it too short for drama. I think I’ve mentioned one time before that I reconnected with a friend that I had up in Boone when I went to school there. I feel so blessed to have him back in my life that words can’t even describe. He taught me a lot, regardless of whether he knew it or not, when we were at ASU. He teaches me so much more now. This guy has a definitive purpose on this earth. He may not know exactly what that is just yet, but I do know that when he finds it, he’ll surprise himself and others at how amazing that purpose is.

4. Health Insurance!!! I’m not quite sure how anyone goes without this!!! I’m all for universal healthcare for children 18 and under, as well as for Students attending college. However, when it comes to working individuals… You can’t AFFORD to NOT pay every paycheck. Those people who say that they can’t afford to have the $50+ taken from their paycheck… Just wait until something happens to you and you have to go to the doctor.. you end up with a bill for $10K… That’s something you REALLY can’t afford!

5. As much as I can’t stand my job sometimes, and as much as it really irritates me to the point where I feel like I have to complain, I am VERY thankful that I still have a job. I have excellent benefits, including a great 401K program. I do enjoy who I work with, and I think that is half the battle. Although it would help if there were a few extra people around here to cross train with some of the things that I do. At least I have things to do. I know I get stressed out and want to throw in the towel, but at least I have the stress and the towel.

If you are reading this blog.. What is one thing you are thankful for?

Alright.. I’m going to get back to work.. (that’s another thing I’m thankful for… I can blog at work! When I’m supposed to be working.. when I have a whole bunch of stuff to work on.. thank goodness that they allow breaks every now and then!)

Love to you all!

And I leave you with a few Hawaii Pictures.. haha

Dear God, it's me, Christie..

I am having a “Dear God, It’s me, Margaret.” moment, right now. I’m sitting here trying to wrap my brain around the reality that my mother has cancer. She underwent her third chemo treatment yesterday and I think now the reality is haunting me. Her second chemo treatment went well, but when she got home, she took a nap, and woke up with a fever that was quite vengeful. By the end of the night it had spiked to 102.something. It landed her a dandy little trip to the emergency room to be poked and prodded and bled to figure out what was making her sick. After being pumped full of fluids and antibiotics, she was allowed to come home and rest. We still don’t know what caused it. We thought it was just a virus. That is, until yesterday. Mom underwent the chemo, did fine throughout the whole day, and then in the evening, she struck another fever. This time it was not so vengeful, but every bit as worrisome. We were all concerned about her, but I hate that Dad feels he has to carry the burden by himself. The doctors this morning again poked and prodded her and drew blood to check for any blips. Now, they seem to think that Mom may have developed an antibody to the chemo on the first treatment, and then when she went back, her system is trying to fight the foreign substances flowing through her veins that are supposed to be killing the foreign little cancer buggers.
My Dear God moment was just now, as I was completing a report for work, and the sun just all of a sudden came out (it was very overcast this AM). I’m sitting here thinking Holy Crap, this really is real to my life. I’ve been having some heart to hearts with God about helping Mom beat this thing, and let her get through the worst parts of this chemo. I sure hope He’s listening!
I think I’ve also been having a pity party for myself. Work has been rather hellish and overwhelming lately. I finally got a raise yesterday. Which I’m thrilled about and Thankful for! I just feel like I don’t have the time to sit and absorb the things that are happening around me. That in turn, causes a lot of stress. So again, I have a “Dear God” moment asking for things to stop spinning so quickly so that I can catch up without getting too dizzy. Then I have to ask myself if I would actually try to catch up or if I would sit there and feel sorry for myself. Probably the latter.. I just wish that this year would slow down! I can’t believe it’s already April, and in October Beebug will be joining the family.  Beebug is my new little niece or nephew that is due to make their grand entrance on or near October 19, 2008.
I guess BeeBug will be our shining star and the hope that everything will be okay.
I just had to vent for a little bit. Thank Goodness for the blogosphere world! 